
MLM
Woman Issue 85
February 2004
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Welcome to the 85th issue of the MLM Woman Newsletter.
This month we feature articles on marketing "gurus", what
to do when you feel like quitting, how to build your downline to last
and how to stop sabotaging your sales.
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Woman
Marketing "Gurus":
Do You Need One?
Copyright 2003 Priya Shah
It's become fashionable to bash marketing "gurus"
nowadays.
There are some for whom the prospect of even looking at someone as
a "guru" is a sin. They believe in being free-thinkers,
unfettered by the bonds of guru-dom.
Then there are those who try to score points by "proving"
gurus wrong. They think they have achieved a new high in their field
just by proving that a "guru" made a false statement.
The problem with such people is that they refuse to understand "gurus"
for what they are.
So just what IS a guru (marketing or otherwise)?
To put it simply, a guru is someone who has "been there, done
that."
A guru is not one who is meant to be followed like a sheep, nor one
whose every word is written in stone.
Of the letters in the Sanskrit word "Guru ", the letter
'Gu' stands for darkness or ignorance; and the letter 'Ru' stands
for the one who removes it or dispels it.
A guru is one who imparts knowledge that clears the path of the seeker.
Knowledge that helps the seeker gain a better understanding of himself.
Unfortunately many people see gurus - and marketing gurus in particular
- as successful, over-bearing, conceited boors.
Trust me, if a person was successful in this field, he'd never have
got there by being over-bearing and conceited.
Why? Because to be a success, you need other people to help you get
there. And no one is going to do business with you if you're an over-bearing,
conceited boor.
So just why do you need a guru?
For the same reason you need a parent - to guide you when you are
young and still learning the ways of the world.
For the same reason you need a teacher - to introduce you to new concepts
and ways of thinking you may never have conceived of.
For the same reason you need a football coach - to teach you the rules
of the game.
For the same reason you need a mountain guide - to take you through
treacherous terrain to a safer place.
Sadly, people only perceive gurus as someone to look up to with fear
and disdain, or as someone to pull down so that one can feel important.
They can never understand that a guru (or mentor, or teacher, or whatever
you choose to call them) is just someone who can help cut their learning
curve.
Someone who can help you NOT re-invent the wheel, but continue where
they left off.
Someone who could share with you a new way of doing things that could
benefit you in ways you could never imagine.
Few 'real' gurus - at least those worth learning from - will ever
want to be called that.
The ones who do are usually cocky, self-professed types, full of their
own importance - and you'll learn more by avoiding them like the plague.
The gurus to watch (note, I didn't say follow - as in sheep) and learn
from, are the ones with a long track record of success.
The ones who have repeatedly proved that their methods are legitimate
and that they work.
Not the flash-in-the-pan types, who come and go faster than you can
say "bestselling ebook."
Not the ones who jump from one opportunity to the next and try to
take you along for the ride.
Not the ones who endorse everything from lunar real-estate to miracle
cure-alls.
And certainly not cocky little teenagers, who have never cut their
teeth on real marketing.
Don't expect your chosen guru to know everything about everything.
Even gurus specialize in different areas of expertise.
Just to give you an example, I respect Corey Rudl highly for his pioneering
knowledge of marketing. But I would never take advice from him on
getting high rankings in search engines.
For specialized knowledge like that, I would learn from someone who
is a true expert in that field, like Dan Thies or Michael Campbell.
Whether you're a newbie starting out on the internet, or an experienced
marketer who has honed his skills to perfection, the one thing you
can always benefit from is an open mind.
And a willingness to be taught.
So when you do choose a guru, guide, mentor or coach, pick one whose
insight can help you see yourself - and what you have to offer - more
clearly.
One whose knowledge can show you how to bring out your own latent
talents.
And one whose guidance can help you grow into a seasoned and successful
entrepreneur.
About the Author
Priya Shah is the Editor of "Health eBiz,"
an ezine for Health & Wellness Entrepreneurs. Subscribe here:
http://www.health-ebiz.com
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Do
You Ever Feel
Like Just Quitting?
Copyright © 2003 by Sue Seward.
All Rights Reserved.
Do you feel like sometimes things just aren't going like
you expected when you started out this new year or for years now maybe?
Do you ever feel like you just want to throw in the towel
and QUIT?
And I'm talking about with anything, business, health/fitness
goals, your job, your career, whatever it is your trying to accomplish
to create a better life for yourself and your family.
Believe me I've felt like quitting many times!
Like just giving up, because it's to hard, so frustrating,
disappointments, discouragement's, people don't listen, some people
say one thing and then do another, sometimes people are rude, cut you
down, say what you're doing won't work, you're crazy, there's no money,
people complain, nobody will do anything, some people jump from one
thing to the next, no commitment, you're not making any money, spending
to much money, and on and on.
Has any of this happened for you? Do you feel like a failure?
This might be tough to hear but really if you haven't failed you haven't
been doing much of anything!
I'm going to tell you a little secret, something most
people won't tell you.
THIS IS HARD! It's not a cake walk! If someone told you
it would be easy they weren't telling you all of the truth. Ever feel
like that?
Yes there are simple things you must do every day but
it's getting through all of the above that will bring you to success!
ALL of that stuff above is what makes you stronger as
your growing and developing into a leader.
When you do develop into a leader then you may get even
more grief from people who might be jealous and try and bring you down.
It's all a part of the process!
The thing is, can you take it and take it for long enough?
Do you have the STAMINA to last a MARATHON?
Leaders do deal with all of the above. Just like a marathon
runner deals with everything that happens to their body and mind when
running 26.2 miles, for some like my husband Clif it's hours and hours
of running and dealing with stuff going on with his body and in his
mind.
He keeps going no matter what until it's DONE!
A marathon runner doesn't just wake up one day and say
"ok I think I'll go out and run a marathon today"! They train
for it! Clif starts his training months and months ahead of time. There
are a lot of little things he does to prepare. Small goals he must accomplish.
He's also run several marathons so he knows each time
what he may expect although sometimes something unexpectedly could happen
with his body. He drinks water and gatorade all the week before, and
he also eats the right things the night before and goes to bed very
early. All this is preparation.
He just ran the Houston marathon January 18th in 4 hours
18 minutes.
Now that may seem slow to some of you who run marathons
but it's quite an accomplishment for Clif!
This was his 9th marathon in about 7 years I think it's
been.
He runs his 10th in February in Austin!
When I asked him how he felt he said, "I felt like
I ran a MARATHON"!!!! I'm SO proud of him and my goal has been
and will continue to be to bring him home from his JOB! The way things
are looking we may be scaling him back this year depending on things
at his company. He is part owner of the survey company he runs in Houston.
He's been doing this for over 30 years.
Our goal has been to bring him home full time by the time
he's 54. He turns 53 this March. Now this too has taken some planning
and consistently focusing on many small goals that will lead us to accomplishing
this ULTIMATE goal!
In the last seven years guys and gals I have worked consistently
every single day towards these goals and in particular this one ULTIMATE
goal and have NEVER GIVEN UP! Quitting has never been an option. Although
I have thought about it a few times. Kind of like he does when he's
running one of these marathons.
Here's the secrets to our success in a nut shell!
Being Consistent
Very persistent, never giving up on others, but remembering
it's got to be THEIR decision, the timing has to be right for THEM!
Following up
Staying in touch
Building relationships, forming alliances, BUILD networks!
Making friends and keeping them no matter what. Loyalty is very important
to us.
Being Consistent every single day, did I say that? It's
a BIGGIE! <smile>
It's been a MARATHON not a sprint!
It WILL Happen for ANYONE that has the desire to keep
going no matter what!
So what's the BIGGEST secret of all?
NEVER NEVER NEVER give up!
SUCCESS
"Set your goals high and don't stop til you get there!"
- Bo Jackson
Always Expect Success!
Sue
About the Author
Sue Seward is an entrepreneur,
wife and mom, and has been earning an income for over seven years from
home on the Internet. She is also a published writer, speaker, Internet
Marketing trainer, and publishes a weekly Internet Marketing Business
Resource newsletter http://www.FitFourSuccess.com
Stop Sabotaging Your
Sales
Copyright 2004 Bob Leduc
Do your web pages, sales letters or personal presentations
include subtle distractions that unnecessarily cause you to lose sales?
Sometimes prospective customers get distracted during
the selling process by outside interruptions. You cannot control those.
But many sales-killing distractions are caused by what you put in your
web pages and other sales messages ...or by what you say in your personal
presentations.
Here are 3 unnecessary distractions you may be creating
that sabotage your sales - and how you can avoid them:
1. Requiring Customers to Make Unnecessary Decisions
Design your selling process so prospects do not have to
make unnecessary decisions.
Some prospects have difficulty making a clear decision
when they have several options. They often react by procrastinating
and never making a decision ...and you lose the sale you already made.
Tip: Promote only one product or service at a time.
You can develop separate promotions for each product or service you
sell. You can even combine several products and services into one package.
But always limit your prospect's buying decision to "yes"
or "no". Don't distract them with a "which one"
decision.
2. Diverting Your Customers Attention to Something
Else
Don't include anything in your selling procedure that
can divert attention away from your selling process.
For example, I often see sales oriented web pages that
provide clickable links to other web sites with the testimonials. Why
would any marketer want to send prospective customers to another web
site in the middle of their presentation?
Some prospects will never come back. And for those that
do, the flow of the selling process was interrupted - reducing the likelihood
of closing the sale. Clickable links have many advantages ...but not
when they are in the middle of your sales presentation.
Tip: Review what you usually say in live sales
presentations and what you include in your web pages and other sales
messages. Look for unnecessary diversions you may have included - and
get rid of them.
3. Presenting Unpleasant Surprises
Avoid including any unpleasant surprises in your selling
process - especially near the end.
For example: Many websites do not mention shipping charges
until the very last screen of the shopping cart. This unpleasant surprise
is one of the major reasons why customers abandon online orders. You
can avoid this by always including the shipping charge wherever you
list the
price.
Tip: An unpleasant surprise can kill a sale. But
a pleasant surprise can help close a sale. For example, adding an unexpected
bonus immediately before your prospect takes the last action to complete
a sale will usually eliminate any last minute hesitation.
Don't ask your prospects to make unnecessary decisions.
Avoid diverting their attention away from your selling presentation.
And don't alarm them with any unpleasant surprises.
It's hard enough to get a prospective customers attention
once. If you distract them unnecessarily with something else you may
not be able to get their attention again ...and you will lose a sale
needlessly.
About the Author
Bob Leduc spent 20 years helping businesses like yours find
new customers and increase sales. He just released a New Edition of
his manual, How To Build Your Small Business Fast With Simple Postcards
...and launched *BizTips from Bob*, a newsletter to help small businesses
grow and prosper. You'll find his low-cost marketing methods at: http://BobLeduc.com
or call: 702-658-1707 After 10 AM Pacific Time/Las Vegas, NV