MLM Woman Issue 116
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Welcome to the 116th issue of the MLM Woman Newsletter! This
month we feature 5 more articles from successful businesswomen who
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Kick Your Business Into
by Jackie Ulmer
Fall and business season has kicked back into full gear and
I hope you are taking advantage of that. The numbers are exciting
to me, take a look:
- Direct selling has grown every single year
for the past 20 years...nearly doubling in the past 10 years
- Annual sales have hit $30 billion in the US
and $100 billion worldwide.
- Every week 175,000 Americans join the ranks
of direct sellers; 300,000 worldwide.
There are 13 million direct sellers in the US
and 40 million worldwide.
So, that is great news for you and me. How big
do you want your piece of the pie to be? I'm expecting mine
to be HUGE and hope you are, too.
So, let's talk about a few ways that you can
make this season a success for YOU!
First, get prepared and get organized. Set aside
2 - 4 hours to clean up, clean out and get ready. Get rid
of the clutter and junk that is slowing you down. Did you
know that having clutter around slows you down, even if you
don't think so, because you are psychologically aware of it
and it is eating into your productive time?
I know this because I see the difference in
my effectiveness when my desk is clear, files are where they
go and I am ready to do business in every way possible.
Second, decide the top 3 methods you are going
to use for building your business and then determine what
tools you'll need to be effective. Get those tools TODAY!
Yes, TODAY, don't wait!
I've recently been conducting coaching sessions
with each of my personally sponsored business partners and
I have found the number one reason for lack of success has
actually all been related to procrastination.
Let's take Susie - she wants to be effective,
she wants to build her business, but she is not prepared and
so her business is going no where. She has a plan to do this
and this and this, but she doesn't have her space and mind
organized, and so she is doing nothing.
With a few actions steps and accountability, we have Susie
ready to take aim and fire. It really involved taking a few
minutes to organize what she would need and then preparing
for it. I'll be checking in with Susie next week to make sure
she is ready to take off.
Third, put your blinders on and begin to take
action right now, and continue this every day for the next
90 days. Don't look up, don't look sideways and don't look
back! You are forward focused and looking straight ahead.
Set a course and follow it religiously for 90
days. At the end of that time, you can evaluate and make changes
if necessary. Evaluating too soon will not give you accurate
Finally, know what you are going after and expect
it to show up. Belief and enthusiasm toward your goal is what
inspires you to action. And, inspired action is the most effective
kind. Why? Because it comes from your true, inner drive and
when we are inspired to take action, we are not taking action
because we feel we have to. We are taking action because we
Get rid of the clutter, get the tools you need,
and get your mindset in place. With these few components,
there ain't no stopping you! I'll be reading your story everywhere!
About the Author
Jackie Ulmer, a veteran Network Marketer, has published several
e-books on How to Build a Successful Network Marketing Business;
How to Build Your Business Online; and more. She has coached
and trained thousands of representatives. She can be reached
through her web site at http://www.streetsmartwealth.com/
Subscribe to her FREE newsletter by email to firstname.lastname@example.org
7 Tips for the
New Network Marketer
by Audrey Okaneko
Oh, how exciting. Youve signed the contract. You paid for
the kit. Now, once that kit arrives youll be set to go. You
have such big plans. You have such wonderful ideas.
The kit comes at the end of the next week. Gosh, what took so long?
Youve now committed to a volunteer project once a week. Youve
also committed to a new carpool for your child. You actually did
talk to two people in the last week and both of them said no. Maybe
you can get your money back for the kit. This isnt really
what you want to do anyway.
Does any of this sound familiar?
Here are 7 tips for the new network marketer to help get the ball
1. Read and learn about the company. How old is the company? How
was the company started? Where are corporate headquarters located?
How many distributors does the company have? Who owns the company?
What can you learn about that person, or family?
2. Read and learn about the product line. What products are offered?
How often are new products introduced? Are there catalogs? How does
a distributor order? And how does a customer order? Is there a money
3. Join any online communities you can with other distributors
from your company. Sometimes youll find team boards, or team
groups. Sometimes youll find company boards, or company groups.
There are tons of work at home message boards out on the internet.
Find those that have boards with other distributors from your company.
Join them and read what other distributors are saying. Start developing
a support network within the distributor circle of your company.
4. Go to either the local book store or a used book store and find
a couple of books about business and/or leadership. I really like
John Maxwell. Hes written several books on leadership. Another
favorite of mine is Love Is The Killer App by Tim Sanders.
The entire book is about networking,
5. Create a simple business plan. Or at the very least write down
both your short term and long term goals. A business plan and goals
are your roadmap. Almost no one leaves their home for a cross country
trip without some sort of map. If youve never been in business
before, its like going cross country. Without a map, youre
bound to get lost.
6. Sign up for a couple of newsletters or ezines. These can either
be about business in general, about network marketing or about your
specific industry. If you plan to market online, join one or two
newsletters that will help you learn about marketing online. If
you plan to host home parties, join one or two newsletters about
party plan. Regardless of company affiliation, you need to find
hostesses, give presentations, introduce products, etc.
7. Put together your first product order. Even before your kit
arrives, you can put together your first product order. Order those
sales aids youll need also, whether it be catalogs, or information
sheets, or samples. Order the supplies youll need to sell
the product and to talk to others about joining the company.
With these 7 steps completed before your kit ever arrives, the
kit will only be a formality, not the starting point. You will have
already immersed yourself into your new business and will already
be working towards those first goals youve set. As you begin
sponsoring others, share these 7 steps with your new team members.
Youll develop a team that begins working the day they say
About the Author
Audrey Okaneko has been in business since 1983. She can
be reached at email@example.com
or visited at http://www.scrapping-made-simple.com
to a More Positive You
by Lisa Martin, The Working Mothers Coach
you want to feel great about yourself? Would you like to see
all that you wish for come to fruition? Do you want to find
the right balance? There's a secret weapon that will make it
all happen-and it's You. The way you think about yourself will
be your true ally in living an inspired and balanced life. Your
ability to think positively and believe in yourself will form
the cornerstone of your success. Here are five strategies to
help you become your own champion.
1. Appreciate you
One way to develop a strong sense of self-contentment is to
give yourself the gift of self-appreciation. Offer yourself
the same respect and kindness you give to those you care deeply
about. Treat yourself to favorite pastimes - great music,
happy people, laughter.
2. Watch for negative self-talk
I've noticed that women, in particular, have a tendency to
pick out, and pick on, the parts of themselves they like least.
I can't tell you how many times I've heard women speak disparagingly
about themselves: At the gym, a woman complains that she has
a "jiggle butt." At a fundraiser for my son's school
one woman tells
another, "I am such a bad mom. I bought a cake for the
cake walk (a fundraising initiative) instead of making it
Whether said as a joke or not, these self-deprecating words
can be damaging when the negativity stems from a deeper sense
of dissatisfaction with oneself. Oftentimes negative comments
tossed off in jest can come from a much more disapproving
inner dialogue than might be revealed at the gym or the school.
You may immediately relate to these examples and recognize
this kind of behavior as your own, or you might not even know
that you have negative conversations with yourself. Take the
mirror test to find out: The next time you see your reflection
in a mirror, notice whether or not your first thought is a
complimentary or a critical one. If it's critical (and for
many of us it will be), it's time to stop running yourself
down. Focus, instead, on what you like about yourself.
3. Focus on your attributes
Being happy in your own skin means getting comfortable with
who you are, the way you look and what you want out of life.
Instead of focusing on what you don't like about yourself,
do your best to honor and appreciate what makes you unique.
Your smile. Your sense of humor. Do you have wonderful hair
or fabulous cheekbones? Now go further. What qualities define
you as a person? What do you absolutely love about yourself?
Is it your attitude? Resist the temptation to criticize yourself.
This is a learned behavior and it can be unlearned with intentional
4. Don't apologize for your achievements
We have all achieved things in our lives, both big and small,
personally and professionally. Often, though, negative self-talk
will stop us from basking in the glow of our successes. You
might find yourself saying, "Hey, that wasn't so great"
or "I could have done it better" or "I didn't
really deserve that." You have the power to shut down
this negative self-talk by honoring and celebrating your achievements.
When you give yourself permission to feel positive about your
accomplishments and refuse to listen to that negative inner
dialogue, you will feel pleased. Proudly share your wins,
rather than apologize for them. You might even amaze yourself
when triumphal words such as "I'm great at my job,"
"I am the best mother ever" or "I rock"
roll off your tongue with hardly a thought. Watch how your
confidence builds as you praise your wins.
5. Do the best you can
Your best is going to be different from situation to situation.
It will change depending on how rested you feel, who is involved
and where you might be. No matter what the circumstances,
the most you can ask from yourself is to do your best... and
then remember to acknowledge that what you've done is just
that. Through this self-acknowledgment that you can be released
from angst and regret, and possibly see the humorous side
of things. This one action will contribute greatly to your
sense of well-being.
© Copyright 2006. Lisa Martin. All rights
About the Author
Lisa Martin is a certified coach who inspires working mothers
to achieve success thats balanced. Author of Briefcase
Moms: 10 Proven Practices to Balance Working Mothers
Lives, Lisa is a sought-after expert and speaker on work-life
balance issues. Known for her very personal and practical
approach, Lisa coaches working mothers to know what they want
and get what they want. A mother herself, Lisas powerful
presentations and programs have helped thousands of women
define success and balance on their own terms. www.briefcasemoms.com
7 Tips to Recruiting
by Stefanie Fauquet
you are in direct sales, it is extremely important that you grow
a healthy downline. Not only are you building a relationship with
your customers through sales, but you should build a healthy relationship
with your sales team. Here are 7 tips to generating a strong downline
and keep your direct sales business growing every day.
TIP #1: GET PERSONAL
Your downline wants to know who they are working so hard for. Send
a monthly newsletter will sales tips, monthly numbers, top salesperson,
etc. Offer a free forum or chat group to your team so everyone can
share ideas and offer support to one another.
TIP #2: BE AVAILABLE
Schedule time to speak with your sales team often. Constant contact
will show them that you care. This gives your team a chance to share
their concerns, thoughts and ideas with you. It also allows them
the opportunity to ask questions.
TIP #3: HOLD A CONTEST
Offer prizes or free services to new recruits. Offer special discounts
or coupons to the team member who recruits the most new partners.
TIP #4: WRITE ARTICLES
Article marketing provides an avenue for free web site traffic.
Write five articles, linking to a web site where your products are
sold, then submit them to various free article directories.
TIP #5: EDUCATE YOUR TEAM
Provide your current sales team with powerful information about
your business and products. By educating your sales team, you will
create an aura of excitement. This excitement pushes your team to
recruit their acquaintances into this wonderful opportunity for
TIP #6: LOSE YOUR MIND
Sometimes the silliest ideas are the ones that often get noticed
in sales. If youve been playing it safe, get crazy with promoting
your business. Print fliers, bookmarks, calling cards, booklets,
etc. Go door-to-door and promote your business and sales opportunity.
Focus only on promoting awareness of your business instead of sales.
TIP #7: DONT STOP
It has been said many times that for every 9 nos
you get, youll get one yes. Dont stop promoting
recruits, regardless of how many nos youve
had this far. Eventually someone will say, Yes! Sometimes
the squeakiest wheel is the one that gets oiled!
About the Author
Stefanie Fauquet is the owner of www.WorkAtHomeMomOnline.com
A Site Devoted to Helping Moms Make Money in Direct Sales.
Need More Recruiting Tips? Check out Building a Downline.
Connections Can Build You AND Your Business!
Copyright © 2006, All Rights Reserved
important are making connections to your success? It's extremely
important and here's why as well as some of the ways we can all
strive to be a better connectors!
First of all we know this is a people business right? It's all about
people and what they want! It's not just about you and what you
want. If you don't find out what other people want by connecting
with them you'll most likely flounder in your business!
Connecting with people and finding out what their desires are, their
why, their problems and their purpose and then helping them with
solutions to those problems and helping them accomplish their purpose
is your real mission!
There's a way to become a better connector and that is to network
with lot's of people including people in your own industry that
are in other companies. Yes! You read that right! This is very important!
Why? Because you never never know when your paths will cross and
you end up doing business together! So try not to burn any bridges!
If you don't connect then you could lose out on a great potential
business partner relationship! This is so crucial! Not to mention
the valuable friendships you create.
Now how do we make these connections and how do we connect with
people? I've been doing this for almost ten years with people I've
connected and built relationships with through the Internet and
phone. I've met many of these people personally and have spent time
with them and their families. These relationships mean the world
to me and I respectfully appreciate each and every one of them!
First of all it's important to always keep an open mind. You're
a business person so make connections with all sorts of people where
ever you go. If you stay closed minded and only connect with people
in your own company or industry you could be losing out on some
really valuable resources to help you grow yourself and your business!
Connect with people by asking questions. It's really that simple!
When you ask you get answers! When all you do is tell you don't
get any answers because you're not connecting with THEM.
Where do these connections take place? Everywhere you go! When you're
out doing your errands, your shopping, volunteering at your children's
school, at your jobs, on airplanes, in airports, on vacation, with
your realtors when you're looking at property, at social functions,
at family gatherings, etc.
Does this mean you are shoving your business and products down their
throats! NO! You are connecting with THEM! That means asking about
them and genuinely taking an interest in what they are saying and
what they are not saying!
Your job is to be the messenger. It's not to push, shove, manipulate
or force people. Your job is to lead, guide, prompt and suggest.
It is the responsibility of each person to give willingly for their
own purpose. Sometimes it takes longer with one person than another
but it's up to them to decide!
Some of the ways we connect is through using technology. The Internet
is an excellent way to connect with lot's of different people by
using email, online marketing systems, and message forums and communities.
Some of the communities and organizations where I have networked
and connected with people are ryze.com, mlm.com, powerfulintentions.com,
mlmwoman.com, greatestnetworker.com, mydswa.com, ivwcc.com, and
there are so many others. Just do a google search! These are not
places for advertising, they are places to connect with people!
Some of them have special areas for advertising. Make sure you check
first so you are in the right place! Some have paid and some you
are allowed to advertise in special areas for no charge. Connecting
with people though is really the better way!
When you do use technology though remember to turn the high tech
into high touch and that means connecting by being interested in
people and finding out what they do, where they live, do they love
what they do, what are their hobbies, are they married, do they
have children, granchildren, are they happy with how their life
is going, are they looking for a change? Here's something else to
consider. Do they want to connect with you and do you want to connect
Make connections, build rapport that turns into long term relationships
and someday (many times even sooner) those relationships will turn
out to be an exceptional business connection!
The phone of course is another personal way to connect! Use it often
and use it properly by asking those connecting questions above!
Making connections with people could end up being the most important
thing you not only do for yourself but when you teach others to
do this too think of the possibilities!
Everyone connecting and actually helping each other find positive
solutions!!! What a concept huh? It's a gain for everyone lives
you help to change for the better!
Now that creates a true people connecting mission that will flourish
everyone's business! If you continue to keep making connections
and you NEVER GIVE UP you will achieve your dreams and help many
others dreams come true too!
About the Author
Sue has been earning an income from home online since 1996 and teaches
others to do the same. She is coauthor of the book 'Build It Big:
101 Insider Secrets From Top Direct Selling Experts'. Internet Marketing
training information and other home business resources can be found
on her website at http://www.eCommerceHomeBiz.com
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